What is Love?
Love is a powerful emotion that encompasses kindness, compassion, and acceptance. My journey to understanding this began with a struggle for self-worth. As a child, I was often told I was too skinny, and later in life, these criticisms persisted, making me feel inadequate. I blamed myself for the hurtful comparisons and believed that being more attractive would bring happiness.
Many women face this reality—initial love bombing fades, and appreciation dwindles. Simple gestures of kindness vanish, leaving us feeling unappreciated and unseen. True love, however, isn't about perfection; it's about accepting and valuing each other, flaws and all.
During my lowest points, I realized that happiness comes from within. Trying to fit someone else’s ideal was futile. Watching "The Crown" and Diana's struggles mirrored my own, reinforcing that love demanding perfection is empty. Real love embraces our unique beauty and inner strength.
My advice? Stop seeking validation from those who can’t see your worth. Feel attractive in your smile and let your heart dance through life. Focus on what makes you happy, and the right people will see your true beauty.
Feel attractive in your smile and let your dancing heart guide you. Don’t waste years trying to please eyes that are blind to your beauty. Look within and let your inner light shine.
Kajal.
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